The Innocent Thai Woman Who Married The Devil Of Dubai.
Can anybody in their right mind contemplate why a 25 years of age, 40 kgs, spiritually easy Thai woman (left) would marry this horrible, unsightly, fat, bloated, hellish looking, 108kgs obese, 40 year old tattooed freak?
Sometimes even when I look at this picture, I can not understand why. Just since the girl on the right is Nitnipa Nakoon married the guy on the right, Loy Machedo-- that's me.
There are minutes I ask myself and even my spouse-- seriously, why did you marry me? And all I get is a giggle and a hug.
Well, let me fill you in with a few details that make this mix extremely unlikely.
About my spouse:
She is a basic, hard-working, generous, forgiving, caring, caring, spiritual girl who never ever had a boy-friend and wasn't thinking about males. She never touched alcohol, cigarette or drugs. And she never went to any bars, bars or celebrations. She just believed in assisting her mom and daddy in the rice fields. She is young, she is lovely and she is full of life.
Foul-mouthed, repulsive, conceited, self-indulgent, self-centered, self-promoting, boastful and an Atheist. Somebody who had cheated on all 3 of his wives, had over 450 sexual affairs, who tattooed himself from head-to-toe, disliked being around with individuals, broke off with his household and family members, was extremely questionable, vocal and loud. And never ever thought in doing anything for complimentary. And contributed to this-- I was over-weight, awful and not really nice to be around with.
So why worldwide did my better half even authorize of me? To ensure, she would tell me the truth which I would notify the world about it- specifically given that I would continuously get concerns-- I even developed a youtube video and published our discussion LIVE
In fact here are couple of stunning realities that maybe nobody knows:
My wifey's real name is Nitnipa Nakoon which implies "Beauty Of Light". However in English, everybody calls her "Annie"
We fulfilled on the Thai Thailand dating Sites free site. Finest part-- up until then practically every other site had give me absolutely no actions to my profile.
Shaadi which is an Indian matrimonial website had rejected my profile picture mentioning I wasn't allowed to upload star images declaring that it was my own
Shaadi which is an Indian profile and me being Indian myself-- Well, I got absolutely no matches and absolutely no responses while on the Thai dating website, I got over 5,000 actions
I would send out over 100 e-mails a day without seeing whom I was sending it to as I seriously didn't wish to read what anybody needed to state about them. After all, I knew whatever people composed was their own 'goody-two-shoes' examination of themselves and none of it was a true reflection of their character. And yes-- similar to the format I follow on emails-- I copy/pasted the same design template to everyone
Out of the 5,000 reactions I got, I sent all of them a list of Questions, Terms & & Conditions of what I desired, what I was searching for and who I was. And Thailand dating sites Free in that I likewise made it clear that
- I wasn't rich
- I wasn't going to provide any money for marriage (in the Thai custom, the guy needs to pay the lady's family out of regard-- a marital relationship dowry).
- I didn't smoke, beverage, or mingle and wanted a female who was the exact same.
- The woman after marriage had to work and I wasn't giving her simple money.
- I was the employer of the lady and the house needed to follow my rules.
( Nobody liked my rules I expect as the 90% never ever responded back)
Out of the ones who agreed to it, I would simply chat with them in a really typical way and from all the rest-- I finally zeroed it down to 6 females.
I wound up choosing one-- however that lady cheated me of 100,000 Thai Baht and ran off therefore I was back to square one. Best part, we had actually actually revealed to the world world we were getting married and she even tattooed my name on her chest to show it that she enjoyed me. Even after that, she ran off-- an act I might never make sense off.
Finally, I managed to get one girl whom I understood was the right one for me. She was going to arrive in a months time.
Nevertheless, 5 days before she was going to show up, I ran into this lady on my Facebook messenger. She had sent me a friends request, and despite the fact that I had actually accepted her demand, I never ever chatted with her.
And in the strangest coincidences of them all-- rather of meeting the girl whom I was expected to get married-- I wound up conference Nitnipa and getting married to her. Odd right?
By the method-- the greatest surprise-- I saw her on camera and in 3 seconds I proposed to her if she desired to marry me or not. She not just got a shock of her life-- she wound up stating yes. And within 3 days of conference each other in person for the very first time-- we got married.
Now when I asked my wifey, Nitnipa why did she get wed to me or why did she state yes to me, well these were her factors:
- I was the 1st person in her life who informed her "You look like Mickey Mouse" while discussing her ears.
- I was the first man when she did ask me what did I like about her-- I informed her "I don't know anything about you, how can I like you?"
- I was the first man who didn't offer her a single compliment. In reality, I never complimented her at all.
- I was the 1st man who didn't smile at her
- I was the 1st guy who kept doing work while placing on the electronic camera (I was busy blogging)
- I was the first guy whom she ran into that didn't smoke, didn't drink, didn't go to parties and didn't like mingling
- I was the first man who had tattoos. Finest part she disliked tattoos of any kind.
- I was the 1st person whom her family absolutely declined and said no to.
- I was the first guy who told her point blank all his downsides consisting of the fact that I had slept with sluts, I had many women in my life which I was a playboy
- I was the 1st man who informed her that he wouldn't pay any money for dowry.
So in every method, shape and kind, I was the total opposite to whatever she had actually imagined. Nevertheless, well get got married.
However if you thought the story ended there-- well you are mistaken again. AFTER we got married, obviously everyone in the village informed her mother and dad that:
- I was a harmful Mafia member
- I was understood to beat children, women and individuals
- I obviously abducted women and offered them into prostitution
- I was dangerous and violent
- I had drugs and illegal substances in your home.
It was so bad, that they actually refused to send her with me and for us to go back home. So, what was the option?
The Elder Sister & & her partner accompanied her with me to my residence-- just to be sure that she would be safe with me.
Well they left once they inspected my residence and understood there was nothing to fret about. However not without creating a group on LINE (app that a lot of Thai individuals utilize) where they would continuously send her messages to understand if I was excellent to her or not. Appears that someone when again let the family understand that I was 'placing on' an act of being good (she informed me about this group man days later).
Today it has actually been 7 months given that our marriage. My wifey is quite alive. Best part-- she is also pregnant with our 1st baby. So very few horror stories there. Apart from my constant obsession to my work and my state of mind swings where I do not like any noise when I do my work-- there are no other scary stories to share.
The only other amazing thing for the both of us is that-- well tomorrow-- 16th January 2018 is her birthday. And 13 days later on is mine.
Provided that I do not believe in all this Birthday BS, I have hardly ever if ever celebrated my birthday. However provided that she is a girl still in her 20's I may believe of some simple yet private minutes to make it and keep it special. Nevertheless, it will stay personal and individual.
But when I look back at our minutes together, specifically how we satisfied up, I have absolutely nothing but surprise and awe at how she had the ability to look through all my ink, all the reports about me and all the negativity even I told her about me and still accept me.
In fact, even today when I ask her "Why did you say yes to wed me?" she very sweetly replies in her damaged English "I see your eyes. You have good heart. You good male."
Do not understand much about that part. However all I do understand is that I am indeed very fortunate to have a female who genuinely loves me and thailand dating sites free who by any requirements of the word 'perfect' is truly my perfect fit and my ideal partner.
So for whatever it is worth, I am simply lucky to have found True Love. And yes, celebrate the first ever birthday of my wifey-- Nitnipa Nakoon with me.
Delighted Birthday dear Wifey from your dangerously devilish partner ...